South Gate Branch 2 - Week 5 -
Dawn of the Dorman
Monday was a pretty interesting
day. The other elders didnt have any extra miles to use for the day, so what we
had decided to do, we couldn't do anymore. We just did our laundry and
shopping, and got our flu shots. Because it was Halloween we had to be in our
apartment by 6:00 and couldn't leave. So we ended up playing some sports with
the other elders and Elder A and C who are really cool elders too.
It ended up being 2 on 2 basketball with Elder A, C, L, and
me, cause Elder B and Elder D didn't want to play basketball. It was
really funny cause elder C can dunk and in his words "i have only
ever played churchball"... but he is from Logan, Utah, so that means that
he knows how we do in Utah with churchball. Anywho, we were on the same team
and it was just sad. We then switched it to be me and Elder L (the smurfs
here) vs. A and C, both are taller than 6 feet. So naturally i
have to guard C and... ya it was just intense, but he didn't dunk on me so
thats good. They then took us back to our apartment to be inside and i ended up
cleaning a bit (my companion doesn't clean at all) and then i ate panda express
while watching the church video about Thomas S. Monson called "On the
Lords Errand"... it is SOOO GOOD! My companion then wanted to play chess
and so we played. He kept telling me that "he is just messing around"
right after i would capture his king... but whatevs.
Tuesday we got permission to go
and get haircuts because we didnt on Monday because of the lack of miles (it
resets every month) and so we went to go get them because we had interviews
this week, and I was needing a haircut. We did that and then came back to the
apartment to finish up our studies and to get organized to head out for the
day. Starting things off we went to S F's house. We talked about a
lot of stuff and the main thing we were trying to ask him is whether or not the
missionaries have tried to teach any members of his family yet. He seemed very
defensive about his family and he explained to us that before S was a
member, that he wasn't the best guy, so maybe it might be a little hard for
them to believe in all "this" because of who he use to be. Its just a
tough situation because when we talk to the members of his family, they are
really nice and cool, but when we talk to S about them, he is very
opposed to us teaching them. Idk, S is an amazing guy by all means, he
loves the Gospel and really loves everything, so maybe its just a matter of
time. We then had dinner with the A family and that was super good. She
loves taking pictures of us and sending them to y'all. I took a selfie with her
and this is what she looks like. Her husband is not a member, but they just
love helping the missionaries out in any way that they can. They even give us
groceries sometimes! They are such nice people and cook such good food! We then
went to go and see Hermana F. She has a lot of problems that are a little
stressful to think about. First off, she sometimes has to work on sundays, she
doesn't have custody of her son and can only visit certain days, she has a
coffee problem, she suffers from depression and schizophrenia, quite the
handful there. It is also hard because she is starting to think back to her old
catholic beliefs. She is asking us what we think of saints, the Virgin Mary,
Dia de los difuntos, everything like that. Its really hard because we really
want to meet with her on a regular basis, but her work schedule is just so far
up in the air that it doesn't help out at all. PLUS she is already a convert of
a year in the church and so everyone knows now that she can enter into the
temple, but obviously that wouldn't be good cause right now cause she is a
little shaky. We then had a lesson with the M family and E came out
with us. It was a good lesson and we talked about confirmation and about the
aaronic priesthood so that was good too. They are so good that they basically
taught us about confirmation, or at least they explained almost word for word
how PMG says it! They are really cool and we set up a time to go to the VC with
them this Saturday and hopefully we will begin to teach their family members
that came to their baptism!!
Wednesday we had a meeting for
Elder D to finally get his Ipad. The meeting was pretty fun cause a lot of
the missionaries that are training right now I have served around and we always
have a good time when we are together. It was a good meeting and there were
some fun trainings. Elder D's Ipad was not being nice and it didnt start
up the way that it should and it was having a lot of problems, but I think it
all worked out so thats good. We then came back from that and had lunch. We set
out to go visit the Ts family (E, S, and the rest of the gang)
but all that was there was E and P, her nephew. We followed up on
what the missionaries had taught them the last time about the Plan of Salvation
and they really didnt remember too much about it. We decided to go back over it
with them. We drew it out on a piece of paper (cause ya know, you do it all the
time in seminary and Sunday School) and we told them to look at it and ask us
questions about the parts that they didn't remember or that they didnt
understand. It was a really good lesson and they participated a lot in it, so
that was really good. The only thing with them is that they DO NOT keep
commitments! We have tried so many times to get them to say a prayer during the
lesson and they just wont do it! We ended the lesson and then walked back to
our apartment to grab our bikes to try and go and see R G. He is a
recent convert and he has had bad health recently so it has been really hard to
find him and met with him. We FINALLY found him and set up a time weekly to
come by to read with him and to teach him. We also told him about the Wednesday
classes that we give to people that come, and he seemed so excited! We told him
that a member of the branch presidency could drive him (because they are just
so cool like that) and he immediately called one of them and asked if he could get
a ride. He got a ride. We then ended that lesson and went to go and have dinner
with Hermana G. She is one of those ladies that is just so sweet, but that
exaggerates a lot. She was saying that at the beginning of the branch, that
there was only 8 members who started it (the branch split off from South Gate
ward where i was at before, but they split about 4 years ago). She then retold
us some stories that she said the last time, but we just kept eating and
listening. We met one of her grandsons and he was really sad because his puppy
got ran over by a car on Halloween, the grandson is about 30 years old, but
hey, the puppy was only 11 months old. We then got picked up to go to the
meeting on Wednesdays and when we got there there weren't as many people as we
were expecting, but its ok. We taught R and S about ALL of the
commandments. It was a good lesson and R understands the Atonement, or at
least explained it, in such a clear and simple way that it was just
amazing.
Thursday we had interviews with
the Haynies up at the mission office because they wanted us to get started on
some Family History and look up cool stuff. We had to arrive an hour early to
do it, but we ended up arriving about an hour and a half earlier cause we carpooled
with Elder L and Elder B. I didnt realize how legit Family History is.
I think i spent most of my time looking up stuff about Aunt Kitty. I didnt
realize just how much work Aunt Sue has done for Aunt Kitty. I read a lot about
her and it was pretty cool, not gonna lie. It was really funny because I went
on Grampy's side of the family and tried to click as far back as I could,
choosing which side and all when i hit a dead end, and it went all the way back
to Joseph of Arimathea.... Now I dont know if thats right, just cause there
were some names that didnt make sense on the line, BUT hey, I mean thats still
cool right?? Interviews were good. Sister Haynie and I talked about school and
being a trainer. She says that i should try to start in an earlier semester if
i can, just cause it would be better. We left from interviews and traffic was
SO horrible that i was able to take a 30 minute power nap and we still hadn't
even really gotten on the freeway. Elder B was freaking out because the
Cubs won the World Series (which is a big deal, but i mean, he doesn't even
like Baseball). He was just going off and having Elder L, who doesn't watch
baseball, Elder D who doesn't like sports, it was frustrating him that
nobody was excited that the Cubs won. Sometimes he just bugs me, but its ok. We
then got back at such a late time that the only thing we had left was dinner
with the Os and that was really good. Elder D messed up on Spanish
though, Hermana O asked if he liked the food and he said "no". The
hermana and all of us said that he just didnt know what she asked him, but she
still looked a little sad... sad day.
Friday we went running in the
morning because the Haynies told me to do it to help Elder D, so we went
running. We live right by a hospital and a park so we ran along that. I put on
all the sweats to go running, and oh mah goodness, Elder D about died. We
barely went for a light jog and he was panting, little by little i guess. We
then had ZTM and that was... different. The mission culture is changing so much
and the way the missionaries act has changed so much that it is hard for me to
get a handle on some of it. Especially cause the mission is so YOUNG right now.
Young meaning that we have a lot of new missionaries. Elder D seems to
listen to any other missionary besides me, which is frustrating sometimes. I
did get the Fall package and yes, it was pretty epic. All the other Elders were
like "you dont need anything! You are going home soon" so i just told
them that i guess im not sharing with them then. I loved the ties that you
sent, one still had Grandpa's smell on it... that was nice. I got a letter from
Charlie and Emily and (talking to them) I think its funny how y'all put your
comments about what the card says and tell me to laugh at certain parts, y'all
are so funny. We then had almost ALL of our lessons cancel on us. We had this
lady that seemed super solid tell us that we could come by, but then never was
able to meet with us. The T family even canceled on us too, which is a
first for them. We then went to go and have dinner with Hermana C and she
is just a funny lady. We then went to visit with the Cs family and had a
pretty intense lesson with them. We talked to them about their reading in the
Book of Mormon and how they felt about baptism and everything. They were given
a HUGE picture and frame of Jesus Christ in red by their friends and it is
hanging on their wall for everyone to see... they are becoming members little
by little hehehe. We then talked about a lot of stuff with them. We talked
about what repentance is, what the atonement is, what praying with faith means,
all that. It was a really good lesson and we are pretty sure that they
understood it. We told them that we felt that they are not ready yet for
baptism, and at the same time M also said that she didn't feel that she was
ready for baptism either. We told them that the more we meet with them and the
more they read in the Book of Mormon, the sooner they will be ready.
Saturday was just a weird day.
We started the day running again, and Elder D struggled. We then went to
go and paint the fence of our Branch President's house cause they asked us to.
It went from about 8-11 that we did that. What i didnt know is that Elder
D has never painted before. I am very grateful for all those times that we
painted, whether for Dad's shows or for whatever, weddings... projects...
anything. It was pretty fun cause we got to wear normal clothes and that felt
weird, but so many more people talked to us while we were painting! It was
pretty cool. Hermana O then treated us out to eat at a place called Toms.
Toms and Tams are basically the same thing but Tams is more of a fast food
place and Toms is more of a restaurant. The food was good, and cheap too,
definitely within a missionary budget:) we then went back to have our studies
and get ready to go to the VC with the M family. We were trying to find
a member to take us to the VC but nobody could. We finally were able to talk to
Hermana A who has a truck - van that fits 8 people, which is the exact
number that we needed. We then went up with them and had a wonderful time.
Sister W and her trainee gave the tour, but the Trainee is an english
sister. Half the time Sister W asked me to explain the different parts
about the tour because she is losing her Spanish from being in an english area
for so long. It was a really good tour and the M family liked it a lot.
When we got back to the apartment I felt super sick and woozy. We think its
because i hadn't eaten lunch before we went to the VC, so we ate dinner and
then finished out the night.
Sunday was just... a day. I
dont know why but almost every day is just a rollercoaster. We got to church
and did the usual wait and write up our emails, and then the classes started.
For Gospel Principles we had about 12 people show up that we are teaching!!!!
That was amazing! Thats the second week in a row:) R G came to church
too! Remember the lady that I got mad and that she said her records dont exist?
Well she came to church and we looked and she actually doesn't exist... so we
will have to baptize her again. It was pretty cool actually because Elder
D prayed in the morning that she would come to church, but we haven't seen
her for over a week, so I didn't think anything was going to happen. We had the
campos and the M family show up, plus all of the RC that are in our
area, which is AMAZING!!! L is going to get the priesthood next week and the
M family were confirmed. We are trying to get a bunch of the RC to go to
the temple on November 15th because thats when the branch are all going
together. It would be so cool to have 5 RC go for the first time!!!
Exciting:))))) this week as the HP zone we have a goal of finding 72 new
investigators, and Elder D and I have a goal of finding 5 new
investigators. We wanted to get the members more involved and so we let the
stake know (because there are 13 companionships in the stake which is the whole
zone) and we also let the Branch members know too. We were also told to share
our testimonies during testimony meeting. After the confirmation of the
M family, and after the sacrament, it was testimony time. Lots of
members went up and I kept looking back at Elder L for his cue of when we
all were going to go up. I told Elder D that we were going to go bear our
testimonies and he looked surprised beyond all belief. He started to panic and
finally we all went up. My companion had a really hard time. I felt really bad
for him because he shows to everyone how nervous he is. He bore his testimony
in spanish and it was SOOO much better than Elder B (so proud, so proud),
but thats when it got bad. The moment he ended, he ran from the pulpit and sat
down and started to say "shoot, shoot, shoot, etc" over and over
again, but in a whisper. I got up and then when I went back down he kept saying
it. I didnt know what to do, it was really hard. One of the members bore a
powerful testimony though. We told the branch about our goal and invited them
to help us with the goal. One of the members said something like this: "I
am always amazed at the missionaries. These young boys leave everything behind
to go to a foreign place to find a lot of struggles. They have to face
rejection and inner struggles and battles with the language. Who am I not to
share the gospel when I speak my own language?" I loved it. I don't think
Elder D heard it though. It was really awkward because he sat there for
about 40 minutes after sacrament meeting ended without moving. Brother G came directly afterwards and tried to talk to him, but I'm not sure that it
helped so much. We then had to find transfer rides and got those pretty quick.
We got a ride home from Brother G, he is super nice. We then got back to
the apartment and there was this super awkwardness... like real bad. We ended
up having our dinner at the apartment and then went to go and visit with the
M family because they needed to sign the paper that says that they are
new members hey had some family over so we ended up watching Meet the Mormons
with all of them and that was super fun.
Well, I will be able to respond
all day today, so respond back if y'all have the time!!
Love,
Elder Roberts